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We had way too much to do.

A laundry list of enhancements, feature requests, bugs, and shiny new ideas.

So I did what a responsible product manager does.

I:

  • Identified the most impactful work.

  • Used shuttle diplomacy to socialize it.

  • Involved the right stakeholders across the org.

  • Partnered closely with Design and Engineering.

Eventually, I got the roadmap approved by the exec team.

Feeling confident, I scheduled sessions with the commercial team and the broader R&D team.

I recorded the sessions.
Posted them to a Notion page.
Shared links via email and Slack.
Added recaps to our #productroadmap channel.

“Good job,” I was told.

Everyone seemed aligned.

I felt great.

Then, two weeks later, I heard this:

“I have no idea what’s on the roadmap.”

WTF?

We had literally talked about this 12 days ago!

What You’ll Learn Today

  • Why Alignment Fades Faster Than You Expect.

  • The Hidden Cost of Assuming Alignment is Permanent.

  • Why Protecting Product Priorities is a Product Management Responsibility.

  • A Simple Straightforward Approach To Keep Roadmaps Aligned and Trusted.

My Mistake: I Let Alignment Decay

My sin wasn’t poor communication.

It was assuming alignment was permanent.

If stakeholders don't hear from you regularly, alignment decays.

They forget.
They reinterpret.
They reprioritize.

I’ve said before that it’s harder to argue against something you helped create.

That’s still true. But here’s the uncomfortable follow-up:

Even the people who helped create the roadmap will forget it.

What Alignment Decay Looks Like in the Wild

You’ve seen this.

It shows up as:

  • Stakeholders reversing on decisions they agreed to.

  • A “new urgent request” that suddenly trumps everything.

  • Pressure from their stakeholders to get answers.

  • Simple, honest forgetting.

Why does this happen?

Not because people are jerks. (At least not most of the time.)

It happens for two reasons.

Why Alignment Decays

1. Business reasons

  • New customer opportunities

  • Competitive moves

  • Strategy shifts

  • Board or investor pressure

  • New fires to put out

2. Human reasons

  • People are busy

  • They move on quickly after meetings

  • They don’t live in your product world

  • They have their own goals and metrics

And here’s the key reminder:

It is not their job to protect product priorities.

That job belongs to you.

What Doesn’t Work

When I first hit this problem, I tried:

  • Whining to my boss.

  • Stomping around the house.

  • Ranting to my extremely patient wife.

  • Lecturing stakeholders about “the process.”

  • Lamenting at PM meetups about the “lack of product mindset.”

Shockingly… none of this worked.

Preventing Alignment Decay Is Your Job

I first heard the term alignment decay from Bruce McCarthy.

Alignment erodes over time. And much faster than you expect.

If you don’t address it, the consequences are real:

  • Loss of trust in the roadmap.

  • Loss of confidence in the product team.

  • Frustration and disengagement across the org.

You can blame the system. You can blame stakeholders.

But the hard truth is this:

No one is going to fix it for you.

The Surprisingly Simple Fix

I wish I’d learned this sooner.

(It would have saved me a lot of money in ice cream tubs.)

Do regular check-ins.

That’s it.

Once or twice per planning cycle, reconnect with stakeholders to:

  • Review what’s changed

  • Re-align on priorities

The cadence depends on your context. For example:

  • Startup:

    • Founder/CEO and key leaders

    • Weekly, biweekly, or every four weeks, depending on the urgency, visibility, and stakes

  • Mid-size org:

    • Weekly with the team

    • Biweekly or monthly with senior leaders

  • Large org:

    • Monthly or quarterly with execs

What to Cover in Alignment Check-Ins

Every check-in should cover five things:

  1. The original plan

  2. What you’ve learned

    • Customer feedback

    • New opportunities

    • New requests or issues

  3. What you’re proposing to change (and why)

  4. The impact of those changes (pro tip: talk in money)

  5. Explicit agreement on what will and won’t change

For #5, shuttle diplomacy can be incredibly helpful, especially when there are many stakeholders.

Turn Alignment Into a Continuous Process

This isn’t about reopening the roadmap every week.

It’s about extending the same collaborative approach you used to create it.

Done well, this:

  • Keeps stakeholders feeling heard

  • Reduces surprise objections

  • Increases trust

  • Preserves your agency

Does it guarantee perfect alignment forever?

Of course not.

Business changes. People change.

What it does is reduce the risk of major derailment or loss of trust.

This is risk management, not magic.

The Real Payoff

Handled well, this approach earns you credit for:

  • Responsiveness

  • Inclusiveness

  • Transparency

  • Collaboration

  • Leadership

All without giving up control.

Give it a try and let me know how it goes.

That’s all for this week.

Have a joyful week, and, if you can, make it joyful for someone else too.

cheers,
shardul

Here are 4 ways I can help you today:

  1. Strategy Design Workshop: Transform scattered priorities into clear, actionable direction. I’ll facilitate your team through a customized workshop to align stakeholders and create strategies that actually get executed instead of forgotten. Book a call.

  2. Product Management Audit: Get a clear picture of what’s working and what’s holding your team back. Through a systematic analysis, I’ll evaluate your strategy, processes, roles, metrics, and culture. You’ll walk away a practical set of findings and actionable recommendations to strengthen your product organization. Book a call.

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Shardul Mehta
I ❤️ product managers.

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